"No, and your ex sounds like an idiot." (No effect on friendship.) Leah responds, "That's a bit harsh.I just wouldn't have been happy back there." "No, it had to be done." (No effect on friendship.) Leah responds, "You're right.After the call, she tells you her story and asks if it was selfish to move out of the city to be an artist. You see her arguing with her ex-partner on the phone, who is asking her to come back to the city she left. She says she'll think about it, and thanks you for stopping by. "Why don't you sell your art on the internet?" (No effect on friendship.) She notes that she would need a computer for that, but that they are expensive. ![]() ![]() "Why don't you have an art show in town?" (No effect on friendship.) She muses that it could help make Pelican Town a true art destination, but says she'd be crushed if nobody liked her sculptures.It's not easy to pay the bills as an artist." She continues, "Although, I have to admit. Because you were creepy and missed the chance to make a suggestion for her art career, it will not be possible to trigger either version of her 8-Heart event in the future. WARNING: if you choose this option, you can never see Leah's 8-Heart event.Regardless of her blushing, she will hit you with her hammer and kick you out. Otherwise, she acts surprised, saying "Oh! you're.? (blushing) Me too.If the farmer is male, she calls you a pig, punches you and kicks you out."(creepy) May I have a kiss?" (-100 friendship.).She goes on to say as a human, she is interested in how we shape and interpret the world around us, she explains this as she is interested in 'art'. "I actually prefer the look of raw, unadultered wood." (No effect on friendship.) She says that there's nothing wrong with that and that she thinks there's lots of beauty to be found in raw untouched nature."It's the same with people." (No effect on friendship.) she agrees and says Oh! yeah, that's absolutely right!.She discusses sculpting with you, and says "Once you get past the outer layers, the true nature starts to show." “Oh! This is exactly what I wanted! Thank you!”Ī jet-black egg with red flecks. This is great!”įor disliked or hated gifts, Leah will say “A birthday gift? That's very kind of you! I love it.” You can give Leah up to two gifts per week (plus one onīirthday ( Winter 23) will have 8× effect and show a unique dialogue. Gifts Main article: Friendship See also: List of All Gifts Leaves the forest to return home to the farm. Leaves the farmhouse to walk to the bridge near the small island southwest of her cottage. Leaves the Night Market to return home and sleep. Leaves her cottage to attend the Night Market. Leaves town to return home and stand in front of her bookcase. Walks to the east side of the river in town, above the Blacksmith. Leaves her cottage to draw at the beach shore, south of the entrance. Normal Schedule if the beach bridge has not been repaired Time Leaves the beach to return home and stands in front of her bookcase. Leaves her cottage to draw at the tidal pools at the beach. Normal Schedule if the beach bridge has been repaired Time Leaves the store to return home and stands in front of her bookcase. Walks back to her cottage and stands in front of her bookcase. Walks to the west side of the forest pond. Walks to the end of the pier over the forest pond and draws. Walks to the edge of the river near the island southwest of her cottage. Leaves the store to return home and stand in front of her bookcase. Leaves her cottage and walks to The Stardrop Saloon. Stands in front of the bookcase in her cottage. Leaves the Saloon to return home and sleep. Leaves the Clinic and walks to The Stardrop Saloon. ![]() Moves from the waiting room to the left exam room in the Clinic. Goes to the waiting room of Harvey's Clinic. ![]() Unless players have achieved at least two friendship hearts with Leah they will be unable to enter her cottage. For example, if it is raining, that schedule overrides all others. Shown below are Leah's schedules prioritized highest to lowest. The first time the player enters her cottage an event will be triggered, but only if she is at home at the time. Her home opens at 10:00 AM, but players must first acquire two hearts in friendship before being allowed inside. She spends each morning sculpting inside her cottage. She's one of the twelve characters available to marry. Leah is a villager who lives in a small cottage outside Pelican Town. Maybe you can give her a little confidence boost?” She’s a talented artist with a large portfolio of work… yet she’s too nervous to display it to the public. She loves to spend time outside, foraging for a wild meal or simply enjoying the gifts of the season. “Leah lives alone in a small cabin just outside of town.
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Overall, QPETS 6-Meals Automatic Cat Feeder was our favorite. ![]() Initially in Q3Test the console commands did not need to be prefixed with '/'. They continued updating Q3Test until version 1.11. This included three levels that would then be included in the final release: dm7, dm17, and q3tourney2. This also included several of the sounds that would later appear in the game.Īfter the fiasco of the IHV, id Software launched a beta of Quake III called Q3Test on April 24, 1999. A chainsaw and a hook-throw (the weapon included in CTF of Quake II) were in that IHV demo, but eventually they did not appear in the final release version of the game. This IHV copy brought all the weapons that would eventually appear in the game, however, many of them were not yet complete in terms of their models. (IHV) This contained a fully functional graphic engine of the game and a level with various textures and weapons running. A project called OpenArena solves this problem, creating "open" content and delivering it with the graphic engine as a stand-alone clone of Quake III.Īt the beginning of March of the year 1999, ATI showed a copy of the exclusive game for internal use for hardware vendors. This does not make the game completely GNU, anyway, since the textures and other data were not published with the code. On Augid Software published the complete source code for these two games under the GNU General Public License (GPL) license, as well as with their previous engines and works. A few years later, Quake III: Gold was put on sale, containing Q3A and Q3TA as if they were a single video game. Even so, Team Arena was criticized because its novelties were late, and had already been implemented through modifications made by fans of the game. This focused on emphasizing team play through new game modes, as well as including new weapons, maps, items, and player models. The game modes that come by default in Quake III Arena are deathmatch (mortal combat), team deathmatch (mortal combat by teams), capture the flag (capture the flag), and tournament (tournament), in which the players put Test your skills among them in one-on-one battles, and one elimination round.Īn official expansion, called Quake III: Team Arena, (Q3TA) went on sale in December 2000. The single player mode of the game consists of this objective against computer controlled opponents (bots). ![]() The game ends when a player or team reaches a specific score, or when the time ends. When a player's life points reach zero, the player's avatar is eliminated (fragmented) then the player reappears at another point on the map and continues playing with his restored life points, but without the weapons or items that he previously collected. The solitary experience in Quake III Arena is a sand fight against PC controlled opponents, in a style similar to its competitor, Unreal Tournament.Īs in many games of the genre in its multiplayer mode, the objective in Quake III Arena is to move through the entire battlefield by eliminating (fragueando, from English frag) the enemy players and scoring points based on the targets of the type of game. Quake III Arena is the third title in the series and differs from previous games in the Quake series in excluding common elements from so-called single-player games, focusing instead on multiplayer action. The game was developed by id Software, with music composed by Sonic Mayhem and Front Line Assembly. ![]() Quake III Arena or Quake 3 (also recognized with the abbreviations Q3: A, Q3A or Q3) is a first-person shooter video game published on December 2, 1999. ![]() Also it can find contacts that with invalid phone numbers, email addresses, incomplete name and more. 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When it does it you'll see the downloads button in the Toolbar show me the progress of what's going on. So I'm bypassing the Downloads Folder.īut if I select Download Linked File it's not going to ask. ![]() In this case there is no automatic download button but if I Control click on the image you can see that one of the options I've got is Download Linked File As. You don't get the choice of where it goes. You click it and it automatically starts to download. Now sometimes a website will have a download button. Now let's look at this image here on NASA's website and let's say we want to download it. Typically when you download something from Safari it may end up in the Downloads Folder. The Downloads Folder is a special folder on your Mac that's used as the default location for all sorts of downloads from all sorts of different apps. Video Transcript: Now if you're new to Mac you may not fully understand how the Downloads Folder works. ![]() We’ve tested other, similar plush quilts over the years, but they don’t compare to this one. “So happy I could just throw it in the wash.” The Plush-Loft Throw holds up beautifully against heavy use. “She dragged three sticky lollipops across it,” she told us. I own several (including a twin size for our living room), and one of our senior editors uses this throw to cover the rug in her living room where her young daughter plays. ![]() (We also recommend the bed-size versions in our guide to the best blankets.) This throw is perfect for family life-and it’s a favorite in my house for its softness and warmth. It’s basically a fluffy quilt, and the sandwiching makes it very thick and toasty. The Plush-Loft Throw has a layer of polyester (thin but dense, to help trap air) sandwiched between a shell of smooth cotton sateen on one side and polyester plush (like a stuffed animal) on the other. The Garnet Hill Plush-Loft Throw is our winter MVP: It’s the warmest throw we recommend, it’s one of our most durable picks, and it’s been consistently available since we first tested it in 2018. We also have a separate guide to weighted blankets. We have recommendations for a toasty and durable quilt, a cozy fleece for grownups, a cozy fleece for kids, a luxe winter throw, a warm wool lap throw, a throw from a company that donates blankets to homeless shelters, a recycled-wool throw, a super-soft cashmere-wool blend throw, a comfy cotton cable-knit throw, a designer alpaca throw, a beachy woven cotton throw, and a breezy cotton gauze throw. Our picks range in price from about $20 to over $300, and we really like them all. If you’re shopping for a great throw, we think it should be in a style and material you love, whatever your budget. Over the past four years, we’ve spent more than 100 hours researching dozens and testing 59 of them. A throw is a treat when you’re having a snooze, and it can also be a beautiful accent piece, setting the style of a room. The humble throw blanket is one of the best relaxation accessories money can buy-and you don’t have to spend much. Christmas party jumpsuits – inspiration #2: Jumpsuits Recreate her outfit with this similar dress (other options here and here), pumps and handbag. Sylvia above (read her style interview here) chooses a red that leans towards purple for a lovely winter look. Theia Rayna One-Shoulder Gown – J.Crew Maisie Ankle Strap Heels – J.Crew Collection Santorini Feather Bag – J.Crew Crystal Studded Huggie Hoop Earrings – J.Crew Crystal Dome Ringįor more ideas be sure to check out our article on stunning Christmas dresses. Add some festive flair to your outfit by with some crystal embellishments, metallic accessories or faux fur. Red looks beautiful when worn with tan or with crisp winter white and black. If you’re leaning more towards fuchsia or pink, then that will work too. ![]() Whatever type of coloring you have, there is a red that is right for you.Ĭheck out this piece on the best color trends for fall 2023 for some stylish scarlet red looks. When red is also a trend, as it is this season, it is even easier to find the right piece for the occasion. It is an especially popular option at holiday time, for obvious reasons. Let me know in the comments at the bottom what Christmas party outfit you will be wearing. Now, for some Christmas party outfit inspiration. Hopefully that’s got you thinking about what you want to wear for the upcoming festive season. What kind of impression do you want to create when you walk into the party? Do you want to fit in or stand out.įor example, there are likely to be a lot of little black dresses at any party.ĭo you want to wear your own version, or would you like to wear something different in a bright color, or opt for a tuxedo suit, for example. Think about the parts of your body you are happy with and what you want to cover up.įor example, do you feel more confident in a dress with sleeves? Do you want a dress with ruching to hide your tummy? Are you happy to show off your legs, your shoulders or a little bit of your back? Do you want to stand out or fit in? What kind of party are you attending? Is it a laid back affair with friends and family, or a more formal event? Is there a dress code you need to adhere to? Will your outfit choice make you feel confident?ĭoes you outfit make you feel good? A dress can be the most incredible designer creation, but if you don’t feel good in it, there’s no point in buying it. There are plenty of Christmas party outfits to choose from – whether you’re able to see friends and loved ones this year, or you just want to make a small occasion at home more special… What to wear to a Christmas party: What to considerīefore we get into lots of lovely Christmas party outfit inspiration, here are a few things to consider when choosing your party outfit this year. ![]() Below, you’ll find 11 beautiful Christmas party outfits to make sure you’re never stuck when it comes to ideas on how to dress for a Christmas party. Are you wondering what to wear for a Christmas party? Then you’ve definitely come to the right place. We may receive a portion of sales if you purchase a product through a link in this article. We at Romper only include products that have been independently selected by our editors. In case you need some ideas, though, we’ve put together a list of adorable preschool graduation gifts that they’re sure to love and appreciate. You just want to choose something that you know they’ll enjoy - and fortunately, little kids are pretty easy to please. ![]() It can be a small toy you know they’ll love, a cuddly stuffed animal to sleep with, or a simple book that helps introduce them to the idea of kindergarten. Now that summer has started, give your child a cool outdoor toy to celebrate their graduation and end of the school year. Add to Favorites I Survived 8th Grade Class of 2021, 8th Grade 2021 Quarantined, 8th Grade Quarantined, 8th Grade Graduate Shirt, Graduate Gift Shirt. This is their first time graduating, and you want to show them just how proud you are.Ī great preschool graduation gift doesn’t have to be huge and extravagant (although it certainly can be if that’s what you want). BIG class portrait custom drawing hand-drawn Graduation gift Kindergarten graduation Class gift best friends Teacher gift 5 out of 5 stars (455) 610.00. After all, your tot has gotten through their first year of learning and socializing, and they’re ready to take the next step. ![]() This is a celebration, and they deserve a perfect preschool graduation gift. The little one in your life is growing up, and not only are they done with their first official year of school, but they’re about to enter the big leagues: kindergarten. With so many great options to choose from, you won't mind that the kindergarten graduation gifts are right around the corner.Preschool graduation might not sound like a big deal, but it’s actually a really important milestone. Any graduation is a special time for your kiddo and your family. The gift box is in the shape of a mortarboard, which fits the graduation theme very well. Many of the items below are the recipients of awards from the Good Housekeeping Institute, which are vetted by experts and tested by families, but we've also included editor's picks, best-sellers and other kid favorites. This graduation gift includes a butterfly necklace, a graduation card and a gift box. Then there are educational toys, especially STEM sets, that'll keep the learning going until they start the new school year. Achievement is Key Graduation Foil Balloon Bouquet, 5pc, with Plush Bear Balloon Weight & Card Holder. (2) In-store shopping only Unavailable for store pickup. Items like the best organic cotton sheets. Others are outdoor toys that will keep them entertained throughout the summer. The Best Is Yet to Come Graduation Foil Balloon Bouquet, 5pc, with Plush Bear Balloon Weight. Cash is one of the most popular high school graduation gifts, but college graduation gifts tend to be focused on welcoming the new grad into adult life. If youre looking for the perfect pre-K grad gifts for your tot, we got you. Heart Bracelet 5th 8th 6th College Law Middle High School Master Degree Nurse Phd Graduation Jewelry Gifts for Girls Daughter Best Friend. Some of the gifts for kids are personalized items that mark the milestone with their name and picture. Here are 30 preschool graduation gifts, from teddy bears and t-shirts to toys to glow-in-the-dark backpacks. Kindergarten Graduation Gifts for Girls, Preschool Graduation Gift with Unicorn Necklace and Bracelet Graduation Greeting Cards and Box for Kindergartener Girls. I Did It Snow Globe 41First Grade, Here I Come 9Kindergarten Nailed ItThe Last Day of Kindergarten 10Graduation Barbie 17The Night Before Kindergarten Graduation 5Kindergarten. If that celebration includes a present, we have suggestions for the best preschool graduation gifts. So, when it comes time for pre-k graduation, it's definitely a huge deal that deserves a big celebration. ![]() ![]() Preschool graduation is a big deal! The kids, some of whom have never set foot in a classroom before, are walking out of the school with a year of following directions and rules, making new friendships and figuring out how to organize their desks backpacks under their belts, all while starting off on their years-long learning journey. ![]() The Arctis Nova Pro’s engrossing spatial audio provides a rich and impactful experience, which makes it easy to pick out footsteps of incoming enemies from the chaos of frantic multiplayer games, and to get absorbed into the music and ambient sounds of your favorite game worlds. Our top picks for the best gaming headsets Best PC gaming headset: SteelSeries Arctis Nova Pro Wireless Whether you’d prefer a sleek and minimalist design, or a bold and flashy model, there are plenty of aesthetically pleasing headsets to choose from. Once you’ve found the best gaming headset for your needs, take a minute to check for designs that speak to your sense of style. It’s easy to find a barebones headset for basic communication, but dedicated gaming fans may need a quality microphone with active noise cancellation, a wireless mode with a long battery life, compatibility between multiple platforms, and integrated mute and volume buttons for instant access. One of the most important reasons to shop around for a gaming headset is to find a model that suits your needs. Keep an eye out for headsets made with premium materials, a durable frame, and before you buy, check if you’re able to buy replacement batteries, earpads, and other components if you ever need to in the future. ![]() If you’re going to invest in a quality headset, it’s absolutely worth buying one that was made to last for many gaming sessions to come. If you need eyewear to play, look for headsets made to be comfortably worn alongside your glasses. Keep in mind, too, that not all gaming headsets will accommodate glasses. No one likes the feel of a tight or bulky headset, so look for models designed with lightweight materials, plush ear cushions (especially those that utilize memory foam or cooling gel,) and the ability to adjust their fit for maximum comfort. Since you’re going to wear them for hours at a time, it’s a good idea to consider gaming headsets designed with your comfort in mind. Other aspects of a high-end headset include deep bass, immersive 3D spatial audio, and high-fidelity speakers that pipe consistently clear voices, music, and sound effects into your ears. This is easily the top consideration when picking a gaming headset, so take the time to research models noted for their crisp, balanced, and rich sound. What to consider when buying gaming headsets Audio quality ![]() Whether you’re looking for a solid, yet inexpensive model, or a top-of-the line edition for serious gaming fans, these are the 13 best gaming headsets to make your racers, horror adventures, and action games sound their absolute best. We’ve researched, compared, and tested a collection of headsets to find the most comfortable, nicest sounding, and all-around best headsets available. The unmatched feeling of immersion makes it worth buying a premium headset on its own, but once you’ve played with memory foam earcups, on-ear audio controls, and a battery that only needs to be charged once a week, it’s hard to go back to a lesser headset. But until you’ve used a high-quality headset to listen to the screech of your tires as you drift around the final lap, the horrifying growls of the beast hiding in the next room, or the intensity of an explosion-packed firefight, you’re sadly missing out. Maybe your current gaming speakers are fine. ![]() “Give” is listed first because it is the most important category. Take it to prayer, and make it a priority. ![]() Start there, but consider whether God is asking you to give even more. In the Old Testament, the Israelites are told to tithe-to give their first 10% back to God. Before you look at numbers, take a moment to think about percentages: What is your ideal percentage for each of these areas? What is God asking you to put toward each one? 1. Let’s divide your budget into three categories: give, save, and spend. No matter what your income level is, it is possible, and it will require surrender, humility, and trust. Regardless of your perspective, I want to propose an approach that invites God into your finances and challenges you to align your budget with your beliefs. Here’s to more authentic, vulnerable and truly courageous leadership!įorbes Business Council is the foremost growth and networking organization for business owners and leaders.Budgeting: Do you love it or hate it? In my experience, people tend to fall on one side or the other, but few are indifferent to budgeting. We all have areas of our lives in need of pruning, and prioritizing authentic relationships allows us to snip off the areas that are hindering our growth. When a difficult conversation is back-stopped by the reality of a relationship, it allows both parties to be vulnerable in the ways needed to grow. In fact, the conflict often makes the relationship stronger. But optimal relationships can move through the conflict and reconcile quickly. You may even find that your greatest relational conflict has been with your closest friends.Ĭonflict in relationships is a universal reality. When people reflect on the greatest leaders they’ve had, it rarely comes down to business ingenuity it often comes down to how that leader made their followers feel. There are some things that are more important than business, no matter how important the practical needs may seem in the moment. Think of the Socratic paradox, “I know that I know nothing.” Adopting a humble attitude means acknowledging you have limits and room to learn and grow. Be curious about the other person and what you might learn from them. Don’t invalidate their feelings no matter how hard it may be to hear or how wrong you may think they are. Ask follow-up questions to clarify things they may have said. But that shuts you off from true listening, and the lack of listening closes off your ability to learn from the person in front of you.įocus on listening to what the other person has to say. If you’ve read The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, you’ll know this mantra: “Seek first to understand, then to be understood.” I’ll be the first to admit that when I have a point I want to make, I tend not to listen. Let them know you want to hear their perspective and acknowledge you want to work through it together. If you have conflict with someone, ask if you can talk about it with them. If you want to stagnate as a person, avoid difficult conversations. This is about moving into potentially messy situations with the aim of growth. This isn’t about being gregarious and outspoken, and it’s certainly not about being willing to call people out. Lean into that, and be willing to accept critical feedback. Be the first to acknowledge that you likely have ownership in whatever isn’t going right. That doesn’t mean lead with aggression or accusations. If you know there’s something that needs to be addressed, have the courage to go first. Whether you’re in business with your friends or not, here are some takeaways that could transform your leadership and relationships: Go first.ĭon’t let tension linger and fester. I’ve dubbed it the “reconciliation tour.” It was exhausting, but as the five of us sat together at the end of the day, we reflected on how much closer and stronger our relationships felt and how critical that is to not just our friendships but also our success as a team working together. Over the course of that day, I spent time individually with all of my co-founders. ![]() It gave us space to speak about our frustrations and to truly hear and empathize with each other. ![]() That gave us the space to speak openly about ways we felt hurt. The ground from which we were starting was our friendship and love for one another. But as we spoke, it was clear, we were there for each other. |
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